Preparing For         A Reading 

Preparing For A Reading 

Please make sure that you're not cooking, cleaning, walking,around  working out or driving (yes it happens) try to be in a quiet space where you won't be distracted no TV or music playing in the background. If you want more than one person to be present during the reading please specify that when booking, because even if there's another person in the room with you or nearby a totally different spirit could come through for them instead of you (client) make sure you discuss with Andrea which video call app you're going to use. If it's Zoom it's free to download from both Apple & Google playstore  Make sure we have agreed to a code|safe word preferably Not one that is likely to come up in a reading like your loved ones favorite place or anything they would use as evidence for a good reading. 

I also tell people to talk to their loved ones before the reading thanking  them for coming through. Play music you like to raise your vibration frequency. Look at it like an order you placed online and you know with certainty that they're going to come through. Also it is so important to keep an open mind and open heart and respect for the mediumship process, for example someone could bring through your loved one and get 95% of the evidence correct but if they don't get a certain word, phrase or name right don't dismiss it  as the medium not connecting with your loved one. It's also important Not to be under the influence of any substance spirit needs us alert and coherent, and as much as the medium needs to hear Yes No Maybe the spirit also needs to hear your (client) voice because they're here for you. 

Important NEVER FEED THE MEDIUM  . I ask for  a name and sometimes the relationship that people want to hear from or if they prefer let spirit come through organically. However if I or another medium says something like "you understand a blue car with this person?" Don't then say "Yes they loved it took me on trips to the beach and took me grocery shopping every week their brother loved it too they're in spirit with him."  What that does is give way too much detailed evidence that your loved one was likely to use as evidence of a genuine authentic connection to spirit.                           You wouldn't go to a restaurant for a meal only to stand in the kichen prepare the food & cook it yourself. So answer with Yes, No, Maybe I might need more information.